Kahl blinks, in a cat's way; if he were human, he would nod.
"Yes; in that case, you would owe it to him to put your personal feelings aside. But he isn't. He is not your inmate, nor your friend, nor has he even asked you for neutrality, even though you feel like you owe it to everyone. He is here on the barge with you, but you do not even owe him what you would owe to a neighbor, because he has not been a neighbor to you, and reciprocity matters, in these things. You have three choices, Hanna Falk Cross, but you do not owe him anything; you should choose based upon what you can live with."
Being of the mind that you should kill people with kindness, he isnt sure he agrees about reciprocity being a factor, but he does get it, that he has something to actually think about rather than this big, amorphous thing that has been bothering him without much want or ability to choose a direction to point himself.
"Three choices?" Sorry Kahl but Hanna might be clever but he's never been accused of being especially smart.
It matters to neighborliness; it matters to what is owed by that claim. Hanna's preferences and tactics are his own lookout. Kahl doesn't mind explaining; it is part of his role, he is starting to understand, to make clear the forks in the road.
"First, you can continue to hold your grudge. You can follow curse upon curse, heap aggravation upon aggravation, seeking satisfaction in pettiness, forbidden as you are by the Admiral, and prevented by your own ignorance of The Eleven's inner heart, from visiting true cruelty upon him. It is unlikely that you will never be able to hurt him in the same way you were hurt, if only because he has no one in his life whom he loves in the way you have loved his victims. Even if you were inclined to this path - and you have told me you are not - I think it would only frustrate you."
Kahl settles his front paws and little cat chin on Hanna's leg.
"Secondly, you could put it all aside. You could seek the understanding, the answers that elude you. You could go to him, and truly listen, as patiently as it takes, to understand truly why he has done this thing, why it is his long habit to do things just like this. I think that would be difficult for you. The understanding itself, even more than the patience or the forgiveness. His reasons are very alien to your way of thinking. But you could choose, honestly, to try.
"This, I think, is the person some part of you wants to be. But you are also angry, and you hate him, and you feel those things because of the kind of good person you already are. Because of your loyal heart. Because you are devoted to making the world better, and you see how his actions accomplish nothing but to make it worse. And that is not a bad person to be."
Hanna would like to think that he has the patience for the second option, doesnt think that the first is sustainable even if he feels like it would be satisfying to stay on for at least a little bit longer. He might feel bad about it, but it wouldnt really change anything.
"Thirdly, there is this smaller, simpler revenge: to decide that he has forfeited the chance of your goodwill. A gift you offer freely, no matter what anyone has done before we come here. A gift he did not believe in, want, or notice, and would have chosen to spurn if he had. You have your answer, and you are not obliged to offer it endlessly. You may hate him, but you need not dwell on hating him. You may simply decide that your pain, your anger, your helplessness, your friends' suffering - he did not think there was any cost to him, to cause this. But you are the cost."
Kahl's eyes are very bright and very green in the dimness of the chapel; there is a low thrum under his voice, something like a purr but perhaps more like distant thunder.
"You are extraordinary, Hanna Falk Cross, in your ability to listen, even to creatures wholly different from yourself. In your ability to accept people as they are, no matter how strange, to offer kindness and fairness as well as you can see it. In your ability to be...friendly, even to creatures who have never had a friend, and do not know how it is done, no matter how grand and terrible, or prickly and strange. I know this, from the way you have spoken to me.
"He is...very like me, in some ways. Perhaps you could have been a friend to him. But now he will never know. You do not need to hurt him. His life has already been filled with pain, and there is pain in store for him yet. You do not need to make more. That is not what you wish to do with your life. There are others here, who will help him, and who may one day befriend him. But you will never be one of them. The consequences of his own actions, upon his own head."
It isnt often that Hanna is left speechless, staring down at the green-eyed god in his lap, the hand that had been petting him still on his back.
And perhaps its a testament to how far he's gotten since his graduation and the acceptance but lack of practice in putting himself up higher on the shelf that he isn't immediately rejecting the idea that the loss of him is a cost anyone would care about.
But then, he cares about it, and the god who chose and was chosen by someone he cares deeply about can see who he is and explain it far more eloquently than he ever could.
"U-um...Thanks. I-" now he's flustered, unsure what to say.
The Eleven won't care, won't ever know to care, in all likelihood. But it will still be a loss for him. And it will do Hanna good, to practice knowing it for himself.
"None of the paths are entirely without sacrifices. But those are your choices. If you wish to remain here for a time, and think on them, I will stay with you."
He doesn't need to say anything, if speaking is difficult. Kahl is a cat, after all. He knows how to sit in silence with someone.
Hanna's hand starts to pet down his back again, finding himself becoming more of a cat person despite his own dog person energy. When you're surrounded by cats, he supposes it makes sense.
"I think I will, for a little bit. Do you like Queen?" He asks, reaching into his pocket and pulling out his Zune, setting one earbud in and leaving the other hanging in his lap close to Kahl as he scrolls through his library.
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"Yes; in that case, you would owe it to him to put your personal feelings aside. But he isn't. He is not your inmate, nor your friend, nor has he even asked you for neutrality, even though you feel like you owe it to everyone. He is here on the barge with you, but you do not even owe him what you would owe to a neighbor, because he has not been a neighbor to you, and reciprocity matters, in these things. You have three choices, Hanna Falk Cross, but you do not owe him anything; you should choose based upon what you can live with."
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"Three choices?" Sorry Kahl but Hanna might be clever but he's never been accused of being especially smart.
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"First, you can continue to hold your grudge. You can follow curse upon curse, heap aggravation upon aggravation, seeking satisfaction in pettiness, forbidden as you are by the Admiral, and prevented by your own ignorance of The Eleven's inner heart, from visiting true cruelty upon him. It is unlikely that you will never be able to hurt him in the same way you were hurt, if only because he has no one in his life whom he loves in the way you have loved his victims. Even if you were inclined to this path - and you have told me you are not - I think it would only frustrate you."
Kahl settles his front paws and little cat chin on Hanna's leg.
"Secondly, you could put it all aside. You could seek the understanding, the answers that elude you. You could go to him, and truly listen, as patiently as it takes, to understand truly why he has done this thing, why it is his long habit to do things just like this. I think that would be difficult for you. The understanding itself, even more than the patience or the forgiveness. His reasons are very alien to your way of thinking. But you could choose, honestly, to try.
"This, I think, is the person some part of you wants to be. But you are also angry, and you hate him, and you feel those things because of the kind of good person you already are. Because of your loyal heart. Because you are devoted to making the world better, and you see how his actions accomplish nothing but to make it worse. And that is not a bad person to be."
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"Alright... so then what's the third option?"
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Kahl's eyes are very bright and very green in the dimness of the chapel; there is a low thrum under his voice, something like a purr but perhaps more like distant thunder.
"You are extraordinary, Hanna Falk Cross, in your ability to listen, even to creatures wholly different from yourself. In your ability to accept people as they are, no matter how strange, to offer kindness and fairness as well as you can see it. In your ability to be...friendly, even to creatures who have never had a friend, and do not know how it is done, no matter how grand and terrible, or prickly and strange. I know this, from the way you have spoken to me.
"He is...very like me, in some ways. Perhaps you could have been a friend to him. But now he will never know. You do not need to hurt him. His life has already been filled with pain, and there is pain in store for him yet. You do not need to make more. That is not what you wish to do with your life. There are others here, who will help him, and who may one day befriend him. But you will never be one of them. The consequences of his own actions, upon his own head."
And what could be more neutral than that?
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And perhaps its a testament to how far he's gotten since his graduation and the acceptance but lack of practice in putting himself up higher on the shelf that he isn't immediately rejecting the idea that the loss of him is a cost anyone would care about.
But then, he cares about it, and the god who chose and was chosen by someone he cares deeply about can see who he is and explain it far more eloquently than he ever could.
"U-um...Thanks. I-" now he's flustered, unsure what to say.
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"None of the paths are entirely without sacrifices. But those are your choices. If you wish to remain here for a time, and think on them, I will stay with you."
He doesn't need to say anything, if speaking is difficult. Kahl is a cat, after all. He knows how to sit in silence with someone.
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"I think I will, for a little bit. Do you like Queen?" He asks, reaching into his pocket and pulling out his Zune, setting one earbud in and leaving the other hanging in his lap close to Kahl as he scrolls through his library.
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He takes in a deep breath as it starts and melts into the pew, head back and petting Kahl.
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